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Notes for the Everlost review Ø 3 Part memoir part handbook for the heartbroken this powerful unsparing account of losing a premature baby will speak to all who have been bereaved and are grieving and offers inspiration on moving forward gently integrating the loss into lifeWhen Kate Inglis’s twin boys were born prematurely one survived and the other did not This is the powerful unspa. Notes for the Everlost A Field Guide to Grief is what you will want to read if you have lost a child if you know someone who has lost a child or if you re a human being I asked a friend of mine to read it She is not a mother whose child has died but she reported that she could not put the book down During various challenging stages of my life I have reached for books to give me insight and perspective Most of the time these books have annoyed me because of their preachy tone or oversimplification of life Can t get your baby to sleep through the night Just let him cry or don t or let him cry in certain increments Trouble with your toddler Just use a sticker chart Struggles in your marriage Just have weekly date nights Kate Inglis has somehow written a book about how to navigate the most tragic impossible situation and she has done it without pissing me off Four years ago my four month old daughter died of SIDS My husband our sons and I were plunged into a nightmare Author Kate Inglis knows Her baby died too In her book Inglis speaks to us I have read many accounts of grief but none written by an author who so intimately connects with her readers On comparing types of loss she writes None of it is better or worse It s all shattering reverence for you Notes for the Everlost reveals how you can be in one of the darkest rawest most jagged places a human can be and how you can still find some glimmer of light some smoothness there Inglis s fierce empathy is woven throughout her story How to mourn Inglis says it dependsMake a pyre of expectations Speak what feels right to speak Be uiet when you need to be uiet Say you re fine when you re not in the mood to talk about why you re not fine Do what you re compelled to do Make someone uncomfortable You have enough to deal with without worrying what people think of your performance You have death to deal with and death has to deal with you and that is enough With vulnerability and stunning articulateness Inglis sculpts a work of truth and beauty Her message is one of compassion How can I be gentle with myself even though I think I should feel better by now How can I navigate a reality in which I will see reminders every day where triggers can send me into a panic attack where time makes no sense Most importantly Inglis is unsentimentally human she reveals her struggle her anger her dark sense of humor a key component for bereaved parents And finally her ability to forgive forgiving those who didn t understand her and ultimately forgiving herself for being someone who could not protect her child from death

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Notes for the Everlost review Ø 3 Ring account of her experience her bereavement and ultimately how she was able to move forward and help other parents who had experienced such profound loss Inglis’s story is a springboard that can help other bereaved parents reflect on key aspects of the experience such as emotional survival in the first year after loss; dealing with family friends a. As a parent that has suffered the lost of a beloved baby this book speaks directly to me Kate so elouently speaks to this sad community and offers a pot of tea lovely writing and immense understanding having suffered the loss of one of her newborn twins uite simply if you know someone that has suffered the loss of a child please give them this book It is so isolating and terrible to suffer that loss This book is like a cup of tea and a good friend when it is needed MOST And it s just beautifully written to boot

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Notes for the Everlost review Ø 3 Nd bystanders post loss; the uniue female state post bereavement of shame and sorrow at “failing” or somehow not fulfilling your role; the importance of community; recognizing society’s inability to deal with grief and loss; how loss breeds compassion; coping with anniversaries; and beginning the work of “integration” as opposed to “healing?. Full disclosure I have known Kate Inglis since 2009 but my first introduction to the author came a few years earlier when my partner pointed me to her weblog we were all bloggers back then innocent and prone to oversharing It turned out that Kate lived only a few miles down the road from the blunt rocky nose of Nova Scotian sea shore where I d grown up and my partner was certain that some of the names and places would be familiar And yes much of her writing felt familiar soaked with salt spray and smelling of spruce It was also shot through with grief and longing and impossible love for children both living and dead At some point the entries about her experience with loss were taken down and while I understood I also hoped that she would revisit those words and bring them into the world againWait no longer Notes from the Everlost is heartbreaking and hopeful a meditation on grief and how it can pierce the world giving a glimpse of whatever it is may dance and sing on the other side of our senses Part memoir part guidance Notes is a surprisingly precise and beautiful map of the lands beyond grief giving all of us a sense of how to live with loss

  • Paperback
  • 208
  • Notes for the Everlost
  • Kate Inglis
  • English
  • 06 January 2017
  • 9781611805505